Father’s Day

Me and my hubby with our granddaughter 💋

Sunday is the day we celebrate fathers and dads. Happily, my husband is so loving and helpful! He helped me get my second oldest daughter out of high school, my son is getting straight A’s and wants to go to trade school after graduation.

All the accolades don’t matter without one thing; the love of God in you. Numerous of years have went by since I lost my daddy, grandfather and only brother. It happened Father’s Day weekend. They would usually fish for dinner on Saturday and we’d clean and cook for Sunday family dinner. They never came back. We didn’t see them anymore until we viewed them at the funeral. I was five years old.

At least I know that they don’t have to worry about this world and dealing with things beyond their control. Celebrating dads everyday everywhere and every kind of dad!

Start with love and end with love. That’s all you need to do. CLG

Spread love this weekend. Life is so short

Have a blessed day and stay safe always! 💐🌺

Yup, I did that!

Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow.

Morning lovies! Another fabulous day and on 4/20! The decision I made from my past was to stop doing things that stunt my growth. Stop gossiping, being a busybody and stop procrastinating!

When I was going to Capella to complete my Bachelor’s degree, I used to always wait until Sunday at 3pm to work on a paper that was due in like 3 hours! My poor brain would shut off and I’d shut down. I also had 3 kids; one with cancer, one with ADHD and in kinder and the oldest one wanting to be a free spirit all the time! Talk about smelling the roses!

When I had to stop and think, what if I had not organized my day and my son’s chemo appointment was moved up? What if my daughter couldn’t go to school sick because she was sick? The daytime is the time for me to do discussion posts and interact with my classmates.

Not being organized made me feel loopy and tired before the day even got going.

For them really! I’m going to do it! Later…

Once I saw that summer was fun and can be enjoyed, I stopped burning the midnight oil and got some rest and did things while the sun was up! Fast forward, it took me 9 years to get that BA in Psychology, but I did it! My son had cancer and my daughter with ADHD has graduated from high school! That oldest one is married and living in Virginia Beach.

There so worth it 😄 I’m grateful for the steadfastness of finishing and not letting nothing stop me! Keep going and you will get over what has plagued you from completing things. Goals are set to be smashed! Make them smash the hell out of them!

On vacation 2 years ago after I graduated and for Mother’s day 💐

Until later, peace and blessings 🌸 y’all! Have a good one on purpose 🪷

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Hey fam! I got so many ideas and thoughts coming up on the horizon! I have three jobs at my counseling office. YES, three! Intake, billing specialist and a counselor! God has blessed me with a great head on my little shoulders and I’m dishing it out to y’all!

I won’t let you guys down. I’m so grateful for my followers and readers and subscribers! I’ll rocket launch this blog soon and brand myself 🤠 AND a website for guidance and support. We can all use it. Across all spectrums.

I’m always looking for news and improvement! This photo is a goal. Keep yours please!

Nothing is out of reach. Deaths are meant to be made to come true. So, keep your head up, heels 👠 on and lipstick 💄 popping!! Love you guys

Until I’m here again, peace 🕊️ and blessings 🌸❣️

Love Day 🌹💕

Happy Valentine’s Day y’all! I had to work today, but my baby and my daughter decided to get me some roses and chocolate covered strawberries 😋 they are almost gone! I thank God that I have the love of a great man! He makes sure I’m secure and straight in every aspect of my life. I usually have some anxiety about bills or the kids. He reassures me of the faith in GOD that it will be ok. So we might wing it some months, money gets funny. Or we do well and we can go out to eat on Sunday after church with everyone, and I mean all six of us!

A couple of them didn’t make the FedEx ride intact! But they were still good. The roses and the strawberries

No long drawn out blog about love and or story. Just enjoy today with your sweetie or yourself. Love is love. No matter where you find it. Good is always available for a listening ear. A gentle shoulder too. As I sign off to go to dinner, remember love is all you really need! Straight from the Father! And me!

From Kharina and Neriah, Happy Valentine’s Day 😚💕🤟🏾

Peace and blessings 🌸☺️ Until next time 😻

We celebrated and now a new year is here!!!

I got the job!

Hey y’all! Long time no see! Anyhoo, I got the teaching job! I’m in the system to get assigned for classroom work. When I say I’m excited 😆 I totally am geeked!

When I applied and mentioned it like 3 months ago, it was a dream. I waited for fingerprints and a background check. I prayed and started working the early elections. And right on time, like God’s plan, I got the email today that I’m finished processing!

As I transition into teaching, I’ll always stay vigilant about letting y’all know that I’m not perfect. Also, any comments or likes and dislikes help me grow! In every aspect of my lil life.

Just wanted to fill you guys in and…

Love ya! Have a great rest of the week🌺😘

It’s been 4 years already!

Hey lovies 🌷 I’ll keep this short and sweet. I’m actually going out soon, gotta get ready! It’s been an incredible journey! He was my friend first and after we went our seperate ways, it was church that brought us together. I still remember when I saw him again. My heart skipped a beat. I was sweaty and everyone knew. Here we are celebrating 🥳 our anniversary.

God has awesome timing! When the decision was made to return back to my old church, I wasn’t looking for anything but God. He blessed me to meet Jonathon again and we literally picked up where we left off at 12.

I didn’t think I’d be with someone and the love was all mine. He took me and my 5 children on, including his own 4, with 2 grand daughters!

I’m off to enjoy myself 😌 and relax! You guys enjoy the rest of your day 💘 until next time y’all peace and blessings 😘

Leaving July behind

Constant flow of energy and light. Never ending

Summer is still here and the weather has its fun! We were hit with monsoon weather for the past week. The kids enjoy huddling together to watch a movie or play a board game as the wind howls like Halloween ghosts outside. Let me slow down, soon I’ll be blogging about Fall! The week has been very interesting!

Leaving Henderson heading north on the 95. Wednesday

We need the rain! Someone needs to win the lottery! We all could use a break! Also, as we peel back the calendar to August in a couple of days, I’m renewed and refreshed! I did THIS today ⬇️⬇️

To improve my chances of growing a full head of hair with Graves’, I decided to start over. My husband was in agreement 🤝 and my son was the first of my kids to see it! He said wow Mom! Go Mom 😃 Trust, you guys get ALL the tea ☕ first, steaming with lemon!

Hope you all enjoyed the weekend lovies 🌷 until next time y’all stay blessed and safe 🙌🏾 and remember, YOU have to love you first then pour into others!

Make the most out of your week

Morning jewels. I’ll start by saying happy Monday 😃 glad to be alive! On this side and being seen yet not viewed. We’ll start by looking at Monday as a new beginning and not the end of the weekend. Let’s dig in.

Start your week on Sunday evening, not Monday morning. Usually, Sunday evenings are spent lounging, doing crossword puzzles and getting lunches ready. Now that’s it’s summer, the kids are up a little later and eating cool things. Implement a bedtime of about 10 or 11pm if you engage with a movie 🍿🍿 night! Also, prep non cooking lunches and dinners. Long cook times equal dishes. Not my friend.

Light exercise 💝 is self care. Some yoga by an outdoor pit or just in the den with the fan on, helps you sleep 💤😴 even better! Wake up Monday morning feeling brand new and wanting to keep doing stretching exercises throughout the week. You’ll thank me later!

Journaling or reading makes your brain less tired in the morning. Once you start a habit or new things, 21 days it becomes a meaningful habit! Again, start routine(s) Sunday night for a beautiful week!!!

Get a pretty notebook. Look at my Pinterest boards for ideas! Pinterest: queenC2u

NOW, everything can’t get crammed into a night, but you can create life changes any day of the week. As long as it becomes a fulfilling activity, the family may join in.

Lastly, eat as a family as much as possible! Sunday was made for family! Sit down, no phone, no politics. Just eat and laugh! Make sure the food is good ☺️ and enjoy.

Knowing what you have to do for the week will make it productive. Instead of throwing everything on the line AND NO lists, you may be doomed. I try to do my best and write it down. Blogging helps too! I hope this finds you guys thinking what’s next and handle it ALL. On a Sunday evening 🌆 or a Thursday night!

Peace ✌🏾 and blessings lovies 🤩

Woosa!! Get it GIRL